Deuce!

I'm writing this flying home after an action-packed 5-day weekend in Columbus with Julie, celebrating two years together. This weekend, like the last twenty four months, amazed me by how quickly the time passed and, in retrospect, how positively swollen, loaded, chock-full of living our time together typically is.

The weekend started with my arrival, at about 10 p.m. local time on Friday night, and our ritual airport moto pick-up. I probably find too much fun and significance in the quizzical expressions greeting me, strolling through the airport in my armored riding jacket, my helmet slung over my shoulder, or the glances we get, Julie astride her bike at the curbside pick-up, engine idling, as I secure my only luggage -- my backpack -- throw on my gloves and helmet and hop on the back. I so rarely feel the "bad boy" riding my bike, but I suppose the thrill is partly feeling my own version of being the bad boy, racing off with my sweetheart, feeling lean and mean with just the essentials to convey us off into the cool night air. Not the typical motorcycle bad boy experience, perhaps, but I am always surprised to find how much I enjoy it.

Saturday was the only day of my visit with a forecast for decent riding weather, and we took full advantage, zipping south through wooded, winding roads to Hocking Hills State Park. We spent some of our anniversary last year at Ash Cave, and this year entered the park from a different route, visiting Cedar Falls. We were joined by lots of other visitors this time, but managed to slip most of them when we ventured off trail to find a mossy rock, overlooking a stream, next to a cliff face and under a canopy of trees swaying in the wind. We spent hours watching the trees moving, talking and resting in the dappled sun and shade.

We headed back toward Columbus, and decided on the spur of the moment to grab a hot pot dinner (tasty and a great value, but not remotely comparable to my experience in Chongqing) at a spot that had been recommended to us, called General Tso's.

We followed this with a screening of Coraline at the cheap theater, and let me say now that if you're an animation buff like me and haven't seen this movie, run don't walk to check it out. There's lots more to say about it, but that deserves its own post.

Sunday and Monday found Julie and I doing some of our favorite things: dreaming up culinary adventures in the grocery store, at work in the kitchen listening to Ella or Iron & Wine or This American Life or some new-found music, running errands on the moto (through some sketchy weather, which Julie piloted us through like a pro) and snuggling up to enjoy some great documentaries she'd reserved for us from the Columbus library. (Trembling Before G-d, in particular, is highly recommended.) We also had a chance to taste the ice cream that Columbus is famous for, Jeni's, and all I can say is WOW, that reputation is richly deserved.

Tuesday, our actual anniversary, involved my giving a presentation at the COHHIO housing and homelessness conference, a feat of completely unplanned and fortuitous timing. After riding to downtown in sketchy weather (we were briefly pelted by hail, no less) and checking into the conference, we scored some fabulous arepas from a fantastic eatery called El Arepazo, hidden down an alleyway a stone's throw from the Ohio State Capitol. Afterward, I delivered my presentation and we were back to celebrating: first with Julie's friends Tony and Dana at a falsely modest swillery called the Worst Bar in Columbus. (Trust me, I've seen worse!) That was followed by dinner together, musing about what our third year might hold, at a nearby sushi joint.

Our walk home (we wanted to be free to enjoy swill and sake, so were relying on our feet and public transport for the evening) was chilly but memorable. Upper Arlington, Julie's neighborhood during her current stint in Columbus, has very inconsistent sidewalk, or even shoulder, availability -- we were often walking in the roadway toward oncoming traffic with nowhere to leap save the ditch if we didn't think the approaching drivers saw us. I've seen comparably pedestrian unfriendly arrangements -- in Darjeeling, India, and in some suburban neighborhoods of my home metropolis -- and few better examples of America's car craze (and corresponding petroleum addiction). Thankfully, we arrived safely, in good spirits and sated from sushi and sake.

And today, alas, came our time to bid farewell. After a leisurely morning, another dip in Julie's roommate's fabulous outdoor spa, and (blush) one last stop at Jeni's, we headed for the airport for what we expect to be the last moto drop-off in Columbus in the foreseeable future, and the start of our last period of separation before embarking on the big trip. I for one will be happy when we are back together again. And here's to the beginning of our third year together. May it continue to surprise, delight, stimulate, challenge and connect us.